Two rishte came to your house;
A) The funny and social type. Laughs out loud. Dresses well. Smells of the newest cologne on the street. Could very well be your brother's friend, as both like to hang out the same places (cinemas, cafes, malls). All in all an outward person. You feel you know where you have him.
B) The very calm type. Very, very intelligent. Smiles more than he laughs. Really religious. Dresses and looks like a sharif guy. Smells of itr. Not at all the type that could sozialice with your brother, as he'd rather hang out in a masjid. You look up to this guy and really admire him, but at the same time you don't feel you've got to know 'the whole him'. You can't imagine how it would be to be intimate with him.
questions
so is #1 not intelligent and a total dumbass?
does dressing 'well' does not mean he dresses like a shareef guy..(how does a shareef guy dress) I mean when u say he dresses well..does he dress well but like a gangsta? how is that considered dressing well?
why would #2 not socialize with your brother? because your bro is not the hangin out at the masjid type? is he not social? would he not have much of a social life outside of masjid?
how about you find someone who dresses well, is intelligent, can be calm when he needs to be calm and laid back, can be all extrovert and social when that is what is needed, is religious but balanced, can socialize with anyone even if that person does not have a whole lot in common with him in interests or personality. who has many of the same interests you have and others that are his own gig.
now start looking
PS: and similarly you have to know, what are they looking for and how do you align with what they are looking for.