in an idealistic world, maybe what ur saying is right… but to be honest, its extremely bollywoodish/hollywoodish.
when it comes to crunch time, when ur having a serious discussion about something, you wuold definately wish your spouse had the same views as you… cus it’d make life easier.
Liking different flavours of ice cream cannot be compared to have different viwes about the world. At the end of the day, you both need to have the same goal.. a similar kind of perspective to make a marriage beautiful and get through the years.
This stuff about “i want her to be different…” is actually just nothing but hot air. It tells me you dont really understand how a relationship works. But rather, a way to be all “im the best guy out there” to grab the girl..