Re: Who would you prefer?
i think an alien or a robot wud be good enough for me:phati:
Re: Who would you prefer?
Lets get K337 an Action Man :p
so that you may train her the way you want .. 
..
Re: Who would you prefer?
i chose rose, caz she's odd.
just like me.
me like odd people.
Re: Who would you prefer?
LOL
I have heard people saying that they like someone 'caz he/she likes the same thing that they like .. etc .. ..
My question is .. what would you prefer in your life partner .. ..
- The one who has same liking, dislikings etc OR
- the one who is way different from you .. ??
Similar enough for us to click and different enough to keep things interesting.
Pardon the cheesiness. When I first met my SO, it actually felt like he is this part of me that I lost. I can pinpoint to exactly what it is about him that makes me feel this way and thankfully, it is something that makes him who he is. It was a very strong connection. I can't say if we're meant to be together forever, but at least for the last 3+ years, we were meant to be together.
We are both very interested in psychology and I guess it is that knowledge and curiosity for more that makes us connect and understand each other at a very deep level. Lol, our friends make fun of how much we "talk".
(Aw, I mish talking to le garcon!)
Ok, done with the cheesiness.
Similar enough for us to click and different enough to keep things interesting.
Pardon the cheesiness. When I first met my SO, it actually felt like he is this part of me that I lost. I can pinpoint to exactly what it is about him that makes me feel this way and thankfully, it is something that makes him who he is. It was a very strong connection. I can't say if we're meant to be together forever, but at least for the last 3+ years, we were meant to be together.
We are both very interested in psychology and I guess it is that knowledge and curiosity for more that makes us connect and understand each other at a very deep level. Lol, our friends make fun of how much we "talk".
(Aw, I mish talking to le garcon!)
Ok, done with the cheesiness.
the last thing that i want is someone from computer science or IT security field .. :| .. I got enough of this in my university or at job .. .. I rather love to discuss stff about other field like lets say psychology (though i am already interested in this field .. very much) .. ..
discussing stuff from other field makes me feel that i am not at some dead end. I will get new information, new knowledge .. i duno how to explain it .. but .. everyone has his own perspective of life ..
Re: Who would you prefer?
P.S: Have u ever seen Darren Brown's Shows? .. ^o) .. .. There is a degree program being offered at Yale University which is about Cognitive Psychology and Computer Science (Artificial Intelligence) thats a sick program .. I wana do it!
okay .. for me .. she should be different. I belive, that i would not have a new perspective in life if both of us will think same, like same things and dislike same things.
I want someone .. who should look at every single moment of life from different perspective than mine, so that we can both, have broader view of every single thing we gona do .. .
its like, i like Vanila ice cream, she likes vanila, then whole life we are gona eat vanila .. .. but if i like vanila, she like chocolate then some day she is gona try vanila, some day i am gona eat chocolate or some day we gona mix it together for something new. . .. .. to have spice in life ..
similar things make it boring for me . :$
in an idealistic world, maybe what ur saying is right... but to be honest, its extremely bollywoodish/hollywoodish.
when it comes to crunch time, when ur having a serious discussion about something, you wuold definately wish your spouse had the same views as you... cus it'd make life easier.
Liking different flavours of ice cream cannot be compared to have different viwes about the world. At the end of the day, you both need to have the same goal.. a similar kind of perspective to make a marriage beautiful and get through the years.
This stuff about "i want her to be different..." is actually just nothing but hot air. It tells me you dont really understand how a relationship works. But rather, a way to be all "im the best guy out there" to grab the girl..
Re: Who would you prefer?
Its not about making my life easier. Its about taking right decision.
In crunch time, It might possible that whatever views, whatever observations and decision i am going to make is wrong since I might ignore the other aspects of problem. At this point, another perspective of problem from some other person comes handy.
we all do that. When we are in some problem we discuss it with friends and everyone comes with their approach and then we see okay which is better. don't we do it? Then why when it comes to partner we want him/her to agree with us without any reason?
I am not saying that our partner should be OPPOSITE at all the time. I am saying that if I am right then she should accept it after listening my reasons but IF I AM WRONG then she should tell me the other perspective of problem with reasons. I don't want some "Allah mian ki gaye" .. that whatever i say at crunch time .. she should agree..
the last thing that i want is someone from computer science or IT security field .. :| .. I got enough of this in my university or at job .. .. I rather love to discuss stff about other field like lets say psychology (though i am already interested in this field .. very much) .. ..
discussing stuff from other field makes me feel that i am not at some dead end. I will get new information, new knowledge .. i duno how to explain it .. but .. everyone has his own perspective of life ..
THAT depends on the nature of one's interest. Psychology is a kind of subject that, if well immersed, can become your life. Psychology (and Philosophy) is my life. Whatever I do, think, feel, I relate it back to whatever I learn.
For me, it's not just a career path, it is a passion that encompasses all areas of my life.
That is the reason why connectedness on a deeper level where he feels the same way about psychology becomes a binding factor.
Comp sci/IT is not as overarching as psychology. So, the way you feel makes sense. I agree with you that being with a partner with the same field might be too limiting. This is where other interests come in handy. Our lives don't have to be all about careers.
Also, when people talk about having similar goals and perceptions on life, I think they talk about having your major perceptions similar to each other. But many of the other minor beliefs are still different.
It is like having the same foundation of beliefs, but allowing the structures to evolve slightly differently.
You can never find a person who would agree with you on EVERYTHING and if you do, the relationship is not an honest one. I agree that life with "Allah mian ki gaye" would SUCK.
Disagreements suck too, but you learn from them.