Who would you choose between the two ?

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rishtas. One is repulsive in appearance in the face and the other is obese and unattractive overall.
You can only choose one between the two. They are both educated fellas and having good jobs.

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how is one repulsive in the face but not obese or unattractive? Does he hav ea fit body or something else?

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Besides their physical appearance - how are their personalities?

There's more to a person that just their looks, and if the obese guy is concerned for his health, why not make it a couple's activity to help him get into shape? It's not impossible and I've heard of a few wives/husbands do this after marriage and even leading up to it.

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The one with bigger......................wallet.

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Yes he has a fit body but also he has oily yucky skin.

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I wonder what the two guys in question think of the other person..

If you're not attracted to someone not fair to marry them in the first place and be thinking of them that way..

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[quote="amber19"]

Besides their physical appearance - how are their personalities?

There's more to a person that just their looks, and if the obese guy is concerned for his health, why not make it a couple's activity to help him get into shape? It's not impossible and I've heard of a few wives/husbands do this after marriage and even leading up to it./QUOTE
I don't know about the personallities i never met either of them. I think if someone is obese then my opening up a coaching and gym center won't really help them because i dont think it bothers him that he is overweight . Him also in some pics he has a scary face.

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Oh :frowning:

:hinna:

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If i was fat and had a repulsive face then i would not complain about these things in rishtas.

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Lots of people think about people in lots of ways but the world still turns and people still get married.

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Decide by asking them to play Russian Roulette. Reject the winner.

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I don't know about the personallities i never met either of them. I think if someone is obese then my opening up a coaching and gym center won't really help them because i dont think it bothers him that he is overweight . Him also in some pics he has a scary face.
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First off, if you don't like either of them, then don't marry them. It's pretty simple. It's 2014 and you're a grown up woman, no one can really force you. But before you make your decision, pictures sometimes don't do a person justice. Why not meet them somewhere at a family event and see them in reality before you judge them? Some people just aren't photogenic. Also, yeah maybe he isn't the most attractive guy out there but it doesn't mean he can't be a kind and funny person?

Sometimes people have bad eating habits from an early age, but it doesn't mean they don't want to change. You'll never really know unless you get to know him. Also, life changes. What if you married a guy who was fit in the beginning but got fatter as the years went by? It could happen. Weight isn't permanent and if you do marry him, you would be cooking the food I'm guessing? Just a thought. But I would refrain from saying bad things about a person's physical appearance. They can't help how they look and what you may find repulsive, another woman might see something deeper.

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honestly if you find someone 'repulsive' that's a very strong feeling so I would not consider that rishta at all. I can't imagine its something you would get over easily even with a good personality.Personally I don't find obesity attractive either, so i wouldn't consider such a rishta. But I think this is a mindframe thing that can be changed and its possible the person has a great personality. This is obviously in an arranged marriage setting, in a falling in love scenario I can think you can easily ovelook a lot of things.

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How about you not marry at all?

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Why not politely say 'no' if there's no attraction?

Why the need to insult or complain about them?

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por que no los dos? #oldelpaso](http://www.paklinks.com/gs/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=oldelpaso)

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when you compare the two rishtas, one has to be significantly better than the other in some qualities...in this case they are both unattractive and unacceptable...nsay 'no' to both of them politely and move on the part-2 of the thread title. :)