Re: Who will stop this?
Dunno which Pakistan are you living in but people have moved on atleast in bigger cities. Larki waley break lot of engagements on many issues, its not a big deal. One family I know broke off engagement of their daughter just bcoz they felt FIL was insisting for walima to be held in their native city.
As far Jahez, most people ask each others views about it even b4 engagement.