Re: WHO will SIT on front seat......
you gotta keep your sugar and salt balanced..if you know what i mean.
dont become a door-mat,because it will be hard for you to gain your place after you have stooped really low.
dont be bitter, then you will look like a snob
have certain ground rules..and go by them, but at the same time observe their rules, and try to incorporate them into your own...that way you will not be alienated.
stay pleasant, but not overly excited,get to know everyone in the house,including the kaam walas.
establish trust and a position in the family, they should know that you are the bahoo, and not a nobody...if you stay quiet and are not participating they will not take you seriously...
spend time with your hubby, get to know him using any chance you get..and let HIM get to know you, be it in a subtle way, or out loud :)