In your relationship!
Do you think it should be the husband, like its been for the most part, through all cultures and societies in the past?
Is there something odd about a family where a woman is in charge, and the husband is the “jee jee” kind?
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We both have one trouser leg each…but my trouser leg is longer 
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Good question...
I think it should be 50/50...but he should always listen to me.
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yes husbands should always wear the pants.
But the wives should always wear and** fit into** micro mini skirts because that's what counts the most. :)
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For wife to be in charge, hubby does not need to be ji ji ..
in many household decisions, my wife is in charge and for many, I am.
One day a husband and wife were fighting.
husband started yelling at wife..... you do this..you don't that.
Wife kept quiet for few moments...looked at hubby..
She walks to the closet takes her pant out of the closet. Throws her pants at hubby and says "try them on"
Hubby says "why the hell for"
she goes "just try"
Hubby mad as hell...try them on.. sure enough ..he could not pull them above his knees.
Hubby "I cant get into them "
Wife "remember that!!"
(Then they never had a fight)
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both people can wear the pants, no?
both people can wear the pants, no?
I don't personally think both people can wear the pants, becuase, well, there is no such perfect relationship. There will always be a guider even if they are only one step ahead!
They should both be equal as much as possible, but when one of them has more knowledge of something, it's normal that that person has more to say about that. Still, when they have to make important decisions, they should both have their say. They shouldn't boss each other around, but respect each others opinions. Every relationship, friendship, marriage or even parent-child, is give and take emotionally from both sides.
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depends on what it is about, she mostly runs the whole social calendar gig, I make the calls on things like tvs, grills, trips, electronics etc
we have our areas of interest and focus and thats where we call the shots, areas where we both have an interest we collaborate, home stuff, concerts, dining out
for somethings we make the calls, when it is our thing and it really has minimal or no impact to the other. shoes, clothing etc..althugh we do seek each others' input or perspective on things, I bought a bike recently and while she has little interest, I did use her as a sounding board on my options and choice..
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- looks down at her lush pants*
yupp they sure do feel good. 
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what about the "parenting" pants?
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he’s the boss n i’m his advisor and treasurer.
however i make sure he takes tha advice 
guyz. she is talking about MAJOr decISions like if there is an important faisla to be made by the family like a personal one and the husband and wife have different views..then who wins?
like for example a couple has a kid who wants to marry a girl by his choice and one parent thinks fine the other thinks no wAy..then who is it gonna be?
well in my family it i s m y mom. even if my dad tries to put his foot down my mom will nag him to death until he gives in and ventually he will. she has the ultimate power even if to others it looks like my dad does.
i see this ina lot of desi fmailies. stubborn wives. they get their way even if it is unfair soemtmies.
i think it should not be this way. not becs men are always fair and unbiased but bcs women in our culture are more prone to fazool ki zidd and doing htier manmanians..
I was introduced to a guy years ago and while I was sceptical about things going anywhere between us, what actually clinched it against him was when he said during the getting to know each other period - “no matter what happens behind closed doors, I’m going to wear the pants in the family.”
Don’t get me wrong - I’m not a feminazi - but it’s a big no-no when a guy is so insecure he has to proclaim his intention to dominate his partner or appear to dominate her in front of others :nono:.
Men and women are partners - it’s expected that they will listen to one another and accept each other’s counsel, and at times defer to the other in specific decisions - but never say to the other person (husband or wife) that you’re more important or that you have sole authority in decision-making.
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we share the pants
husband wears them for things i dont care bout nor do i understand and then takes them off and i put them on for things that are my expertise which my husband wont have a clue about.
kaafi ghareeb log hain, ek hi pant se guzara kerthay hain
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I wear hubby's pants..they're so comfy and perfec tfor when i feel like a fat blob.
he however, i doubt he will fit into my skinny jeans and rock em :(
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Husband wears the pants buh im the belt that holds them up!!! hehe
Husband wears the pants buh im the belt that holds them up!!! hehe
Wah!
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She only allows 'shorts' at home!