Who to choose?

Re: Who to choose?

I think both sound like great guys, so she can't really go wrong. What a happy problem! She will be a in a good situation either way, inshAllah. But the situations will be different. In the end, is there one man that she sees as more of a partner for life -- beyond the basics of the situation?

Based on the information you've given, I think I myself would pick option 1 unless there was something REALLY important tying me to Illinois. But the personality of the man will make all the difference.