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^There ARE men who only marry women based on looks, sexy curves, cooking, cleaning, purity…and don’t care much about compatibility. In an arranged marriage situation…where you don’t really know the other person’s personality…and may have only seen the photograph first and heard from the matchmaker/parents details like height, skin color, degree, salary…your judgment is going to be based upon these things first…before getting to know the individual. As far as looks are concerned…the first time that you meet a person…it’s their looks that you see first…the personality you find out about later.

Why does it have to be so black and white with you? A guy can marry a girl whom he finds attractive…who can manage domestic chores…AND whom he also finds compatible. A woman can marry a guy who has earns well, whom she finds attractive and compatible. :rolleyes:

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^GAAAAAH!!! TLK, I miss the old rolling eyes smiley. :smack:

Thank God, the smacking one hasn’t changed…classic that one.

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People dont pay much attention to character, compatibility, personality etc i am pretty sure most people would consider me a catch if i had phd and loser if i didnt (if everything else stayed the same)

if i am going to be judge by my earning power, i am going to judge her by her looks. If you are not good looking (smoking hot) not interested!

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meh - you wrote a lot. anyway, we are friends of BOTH of them so we know both sides of the story. I am not making something or assuming something to show the guy is masoom guy.

secondly, the girl know how to play along so even if guy used to feel like things are going wrong, she managed him “pretty well” .. :stuck_out_tongue: .. .. few of us tried to tell him … but later we realized, he is not gona listen to us so we just supported him ..

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definitely yes .. if its arrange marriage then go for look .. if its love .. .. .. .. then look does not matter .. all it matters is your compatibility

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isn`t trend changing now, arrange marriages arnt what they use to be. Now you can actually get to know each other, but still women only care about money. it totally makes sense when u see bald, fat old guy with a beautiful young girl.

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Like wise the girls want rights like men, but they chicken out and want men to pay. so idiotic.
either demand rights and act like men or go to kitchen an make some salad for me!

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hahaha....good ideas coming out ....but does it matter that seriously that who should pay...i think that the two people coming out for a date must have knowledge about the pocket status of the other. If u care for the other person than I dn think so that one would think that I m paying for him / her. Does any body goes onto date just because the other would offer him / her a lunch or a dinner hehehehe. Nice way of selling their time.hehehe cant stop ma laughters :D

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i agree! good post

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Oh so you think men select women for marriage based on personality and character ..... what world are you living in?

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they dont, but now it's making sense to me why
i myself didn't care much about looks in the past but now it's right at top.

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^Sure, as long as you are considered a catch :p (based on the standards you were describing)