Who pays for what?

I guess the engagement and mehendi have simple outfits, not that "jazzy" and same with Nikah too. Valima can be a bit jazzy.... jazziest outta all would be the wedding day dress! For me, I like simplicity. I like to have outfits that have had work done on them, but not over the top. For wedding day dress, i like simple/plian dress, with heavy heavy heavy work done on duppatta, extra large in size. Those are nice. I think accessories are important, especially if the dress is simple and can make a whole difference to the look of the outfit.