Who looks after all the household budgeting in your home?

Is it your partner?

Or is it you?

Do you feel comfortable budgeting on your own?

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nice thread CB!!!

i look after the budgeting but i'm not good at it...
maybe with time i will be able to handle it easily....

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*le moi.

it's fine. it appeals to the control freak in me so i wouldn't have it any other way.

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mashallah thats actually quite an achievement guys .. I am so scared of managing finances , I have left it to husband to take care of it .. I feel bad though , sometimes, coz I feel I should share the responsiblity , but then I am so kanjoos by nature , I reckon i wont spend on anything or spend on useless things if it were in my hands :hinna:

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^aww i'm also very kanjus that's y i was taking the charge...the problem is i want to save some from the actual kharcha lol but i just cant do it :(

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i m not kanjoos n not spend thrift but its like v both plan togather

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My baniya manages all the finances..he's a budgeting genius,mA and makes very sound financial decisions. The household (mortgage, groceries, utilities etc) is run entirely on his income. My salary gets split 3 ways... 1/3 gets direct deposited to our joint savings acct...1/3 to our joint household checking acct and 1/3 I keep in my own personal acct for my own spending. It works really well for us, mA savings is covered, and I don't have to explain every penny of my shopping personal spending to him either. Also, since I still have an active real estate career, whenever I get a Comission from the sale/purchase of a house, I put it straight into the savings account. That's our "nest egg".

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I manage it all 100% … with husband occasionally peaking in. Its good, I like to know exactly where I stand financially and what to do next.
I discuss investment plans, big purchases with husband and visa versa (infact we shop together) but I make the ultimate decisions.
I find it tiring someday … its a burden … but I know it’ll be harder to give up the control :bummer:
you’d think having control of money would make me extravagant/fazool kharach but its been the opposite for me …

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we both discuss and plan together

We do it together. My husband manages bills mortgage etc. It makes sense for him to as he was doing it before we got married anyway, from his income. I manage all groceries and my own bills like car insurance and phone etc. Big purchases are joint decision. Im also the main saver.