Who learns about sex first...?

[CocoNut]

With all things said and done respective to individual experience here is a perspective of our encoded need to learn about sex as humans.

Generally speaking boys learn to play with themselves first whereas girls have nothing "new to discover" at the time.

Curiousity takes its first peek for boys when they learn to grasp knowledge of their surroundings. The age can vary from 2-10 for this stage. Those who are sexually hyperactive tend to constantly play with themselves well into their teens and then comes masturbation. Mind you that boys are not slapped on the hand for masturbating and in certain situations are encouraged to do so when it comes to doing it. Why? because it simply relieves the need to and stress.

Girls tend to dwell at their sexuality once they've freaked out with their first bleed out and after that begins the day dreaming and curiousity of what the hype is all about. Keep in mind that it doesn't necessarily have to be when a girl hits puberty that she will think about it. Some even think about it well before the prime age.

Now weighing the two in respect, I'd have to say that girls take the upper hand in learning about intercourse whereas boys know how to perform the act because of practice.

[Capricorn]

*Originally posted by Fret Wizard: *

There’s no parental control in the schoolyard. Kids will always get this knowledge, and spread it around to their peers. There really isn’t any way to stop that.

My question was different. If a child knows about this where does he/she gets the info in the first placce? Its not painted on the walls of schoolyards!
Coconut:- A good answer :k:

[Asmi]

hi, i’de just like to add ke girls tend to lean more about it and they take more of an interest in learning about the bioloically correct details about sex and all thats related with it coz most of the stuff happens to them and they need to be aware of what is hapopening and why, but with guys ive found that although they know some of the stuff they dont know or maybe havent bothered to find out why things happen to girls, whereas girls will tend to know much more about what girls and GUYS go thru.. whereas guys they will only know what is happening to them and not be bothered about the girls… but they will know the basics .. just to get by … if u know what i mean khair thats my view on the subject, and as far as the question about who learns first.. i think it depends on the individual, coz every1 develops at their own pace henna… bu by the time a person is 12-13 i can safely say especially in the west that both girls and guys know about sex whether theyve been taught in school or just even byt watching TV aaj kal itna bakwaas hota hai key u have to tell kids what is going on .. well i guess thats another story for another day so ill leave it there…
Allah hafiz
Asmi

[Capricorn]

Well Asmi, the basic purpose was to know who learns first about sex, boys or girls? That thing is not covered in yur comment.

[Asmi]

"and as far as the question about who learns first.. i think it depends on the individual, coz every1 develops at their own pace henna... but by the time a person is 12-13 i can safely say especially in the west that both girls and guys know about sex whether theyve been taught in school or just even byt watching TV aaj kal itna bakwaas hota hai key u have to tell kids what is going on .. "

I think that is my answer to the question yaar.. :) it doesnt matter who learns about it frst as long as they dont practice it b4 the time comes for them to practice it !! ;)

Asmi

[714]

*Originally posted by Capricorn: *

I have a question mem…Where did those friends of urs got this info? I presume u live somewhere in a developed country where they have parental control regime on so where it faultered? Did it or not?
Learning it in schools through ur teachers is somewhat different than learnign from ur peer group as if u learn from them u get distanced!

umm…ur questions abt where did i get this info? Plz, to an elementary school aged child, things like this are funny. anatomy is funny. boys and girls together are funny. Some parents are more open with their children, others learn things through older siblings, etc. Im sorry after your question i really didnt understand what you were trying to say or where u were going with this…are u asking abt parental control? in a developed country? Anyways, offical sex ed wasn’t until 6th grade, but i can tell you i and most others new abt it way before then. My parents never discussed sex with me-i mean in the sense of having “the talk”. My mom doesnt like the word even used in the house. and dad is a doctor, so his lectures are of a more medical nature or as a dad, a warn me away from guys nature

taz-ewwww

[system]

Re: Who learns about sex first…?

*Originally posted by instinctive: *
girls or guys?

°o.O O.o°

I fink that it’s a joint venture

[system]

[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by Shikra: *
girls learn about it earlier.........and sometimes guys sound dumb when they talk to girls about it because they don't know much compared to girls.
[/QUOTE]

wot do u mean by boys are dumb... how the hell can u girls expect us boys to know about ur periods and stuff???

[714]

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*Originally posted by aladin: *

wot do u mean by boys are dumb... how the hell can u girls expect us boys to know about ur periods and stuff???
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i don't know about you guys, but where i am from everyone goes through official sex ed together. We went to this center, and the first stop was the body and its changes-which included the period. also after that we had to take health class. in later years in health class u study everything like that also. Plus if you get married, i would hope u know abt ur wife's period

[Asif_M.Ali]

*Originally posted by instinctive: *
I just read this in Encarta that by they time they are 18, almost all boys and more than half of the girls have masturbated (worldwide, not US) ! but, I think this does not mean that girls learn about sex later, just that they are not into it as much as boys, atleast the masturbation part.

°o.O O.o°

Excuse my_intellectually_challenged_less_expereinced_mind, but How can a girl masturbate?

[CorruptAngel]

I think most guys and girls find out about it at the same time...I know it's a shame for me but I came to know what really sex was when I was 15 yrs old because I always hung out with boys and had female friends who were much younger than me and they never talked about this topic ofcourse! :D

[Ana]

Would u believe... I learnt about how babies were born when I was 22? :). And married for like a whole year? :)

Till then, I seriously thought they come from the jungle and plopped outta yr belly. Now I know. :)

[KhUbY_PaKi]

I was tought that there are many babies in the hospital and the mother goes and takes one of her choice:)and i was told about sex in the age of about 15 by a girl in the neighborhood

I think that in our society (i mean pakistan) boys learn sex before girls, and in the western society girls and boys at the same age.

[714]

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*Originally posted by Asif M. Ali: *

Excuse my_intellectually_challenged_less_expereinced_mind, but How can a girl masturbate?
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asif, yaar, its not abt u being intellectually, less experienced.

**masturbation

n : manual stimulation of the genital organs (of yourself or another) for sexual pleasure
**

take the definition, and think abt it...

[AmericanDeSi]

*Originally posted by Ana: *
Would u believe… I learnt about how babies were born when I was 22? :). And married for like a whole year?

Till then, I seriously thought they come from the jungle and plopped outta yr belly. Now I know.

just wondering do u know what is sex yet ya nahi

[Asif_M.Ali]

*Originally posted by AmericanDeSi: *
just wondering do u know what is sex yet ya nahi

I seriously doubted.

some one who really knows what sex is couldn’t be such an “anti-male”

[714]

what knowing abt sex makes a girl pro-male?