Since most of the couples feel that they are right and the other partner is wrong.. how to really judge who is wrong and who is right??
i have just fought with my husband.. 
and i am so aggressive at the moment.. he thinks he is right and i think I am!!
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you may regret this thread when you are calm :)
usually when emotions take over, noone is really right or wrong. And who cares about right or wrong - end result is you should both make up and become friends again.
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If you take the first step, you will be rewarded by Allah. Your husband will also appreciate you took the first step. So take your time, calm down, do something else for a while and then make up.
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but right now i am really not in a good mood!!
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many times both are right but they are just viewing it from different prospective. Its desirable in a relationship not to 'prove' someone right or wrong. B/w us even if I think that she is wrong, i never make it bone of contention b/w us.
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haha i know, thats why i said take your time and do smtng else, more productive than wasting ur energy getting angry…
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If you take the first step, you will be rewarded by Allah. Your husband will also appreciate you took the first step. So take your time, calm down, do something else for a while and then make up.
oh, our fights are NEVER like we stop talking to each other, seriously the other time he sees me.. both of us will be talking like nothing has happened, but at the moment, when i have just fought to him and he is not around.. i am really in a bad mood!
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but unless.. main apni ghussa nahin nikaalungi.. i will not be relaxed!! BUT one thing I am sure… I am not wrong 
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this is easy. the man is always right in your case. repent you must. and make him a tasty dinner tonight.
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tasty dinner… karele na khila doon… 
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jo sorathaaal iss waqat lagh rahi hai, uss main tu aap apni ungleee kheer main bhi daboo deen to karely ka maza aaj ayee ga becharey ko 
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take your case to a **QAAZI**** [Islamic Judge] ... he will judge both of you amicably and find *BOTH of you GUILTY, inshaa Allah! :D*
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You should agree to disagree? I will be employing this tactic when I’m married - hope it works. :halo:
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share the reason itnaa ghusssaaa phr b howa kiya hai … kush pta chalai ga tou phr b koi bata saktaa hai who is right n who is rong 
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bechara nahin hay koi bhi…
22347]take your case to a QAAZI [Islamic Judge] … he will judge both of you amicably and find BOTH of you GUILTY, inshaa Allah!
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itna serious maamla nahin hay.. kia ho gaya
you get married first.. bohat saray khayaalat khayali pulao ban ke khatam ho jatay hain yaar
He was in hurry.. he was driving to his friend.. my mom’s house was near, i asked him to leave me too.. he said ok come hurry up…i am starting car.. i said ok, give me a minute and i literally took a minute to wear lipstick.. but he left me in house, calling me at my mob that i was in so hurry and you took time wearing lipstick.. thats it… i REALLY took just a min!! I know!!
so i am angry now!!
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wait, you are married and he still has friends? you aren't doing this right...
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abhi woo wapis aie gai phr ap b class lai lai naa ... u ki ye majaaal mugee chooor ker gie .... aaraam se ghusaa uthaar lai naaa ...... :D
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wait, you are married and he still has friends? you aren't doing this right...
c`mon he has his life to enjoy too..... i am not over possessive.. he should be enjoying his friend's company like he used to before our marriage.. i never want to make him feel regret for his decision to love me and marry me :) he should enjoy his freedom too !!
abhi woo wapis aie gai phr ap b class lai lai naa ... u ki ye majaaal mugee chooor ker gie .... aaraam se ghusaa uthaar lai naaa ...... :D
Ghussa... ye ho hee naa jaaye..... what do you think, main nain yahan thread q post kiya hay?? because i know.. main unpe ghussa nahin utaar sakti.... to kahin to dil hallka karna hay naa..... im neither like that typical girl.. dialing to MAIKA on immediate basis informing mother... mama mama usne mairay sath aisa kiya.......
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Ghussa... ye ho hee naa jaaye..... what do you think, main nain yahan thread q post kiya hay?? because i know.. main unpe ghussa nahin utaar sakti.... to kahin to dil hallka karna hay naa..... im neither like that typical girl.. dialing to MAIKA on immediate basis informing mother... mama mama usne mairay sath aisa kiya.......
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ap ghusaa nahi kertiii ise liya wooo chooooooor ker gie hainn ..kertii hotii tou woo choooooor ka b na jataiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii....:D
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choti si baat hai.....
go scrub a bathroom.....take the anger out on that!