Re: Who is to blame ?
No, its not the DIL's responsibility. Her responsibility are her own parents and she is taking care of that. Its the son's responsibility to make sure his parents are respected and cared for. If he doesnt give them importance, how and why would anyone blame the DIL?
Sure, she could go an extra mile for them but its not her resposnibility to do that. Its his job to get her to think of them like her own parents.