How to best be judging the character of the two types of backgrounds of our men i listed above.
girls, can u shed some light on where to use caution - when rishtey are being considered.
values, ethics, and morality wise, who is truly better among the 2 types.
other wise it seems like all the later 20 and early 30 guys in here , will remain unmarried for ever.
marriage to me is not just legalizing the physical relation among 2 opposite gender people. migod, it signifies so, so much more.
how come, finding trust worthy, suitable & potential mates, is becoming such a pain for our elders and for us not-so-spoiled and tainted young Muslim women?
maybe, there is some thing that Pakistan men can help us look at, to understand why they are judged on the basis of being born here and having lost values, or born back there and then having arrived here later in their teenagers.
apas kee baat hey, to me, it is a personal case-by-case matter.
as long as the guy is not totally screwed up, lacks manners and clear values that go with a decent human being, and is nice, mature, sensible Muslim male child.
but, then to elders of, i would say many girls, a good rishta can easily be rejected if the guy has certain unacceptable attributes, an unethical hidden life, or too shrewd manners etc which are sometimes, unfortunately characteristics of few people who are brought up in States, for instance.
Any thoughts?
