the girl wearing clothes to tight for her own good, revealing every aspect of her body.. or the guy bending his back/neck/legs over to have a peek
i wanted to slap both of them.. no actually i wanted to pull the guys ear as he was two inches away from me trying to look at a girl standing 2 meters away.. and i wanted to tell him “ur a very naughty boy…”
and the girl.. sheesh.. i just wanted to ask her whether the clothes she was wearing were proper attire for a business/office environment..
Women should not dress in a way to attract negative attention. I read a couple of posts that said a girl who dresses like a slut is irresponsible and the casue of many wrecked marriages; i think that's taking it a bit too far. Men should control themselves somewhat, but you can't blame a guy for looking if shes dressed "inappropriately."
i wouldnt go as far as calling anyone a slut.. thats too demeaning. I just think, people (girls) should take more care in how they are presenting themselves.. and guys.. well even if they want to have a look, they shouldnt be so damn obvious...
Can some one explain to me why girls wear revealing clothing? I mean what is going through their heads?
Who is to blame? Both but mainly the man. In Islamic society men are told to keep their eyes down. This guy was trying to get his eyes at the right angle for a peek.
I dont know actually.... id understand if a girl was trying to dress nice for her man (which is a different issue) but just for the heck of it, i dunno
well i duno if the guy was a muslim.. but it looked pathetic
Honestly I don't know but i guess to attract attention and look cool. But i seriously doubt you are saying that women dress provactively to gain male attention. Because it is the same said females who complain about sexual harrasement and men being pigs. Errr the men being pigs was not an attempt to flame you or insinuate anything.
All comments tonight are to be taken with a heavy dosage of sanity. My brain stopped working 3 hours ago.
i was at a afghan wedding and saw a girl in her 30s who was there with her parent btw wearing white see through pants. i mean you could see the color of her undies.
the worst part she danced. I saw a lot of aunties giving looks to their husbands for staring. It was hilarious.
No one is at fault.... a girl dressing in tight clothes is dressing the way she wants to without hurting anyone just like a woman wearing (a) hijab and a guy straining his neck is doing nothing that is hurting anyone... why judge then or call them names just because you don't live that way?
They are only hurting themselves and in the end it is between them and God..... and I don't think God needs your opinion to help him judge their actions.....
Aside from all that.... self-esteem would be my guess for accentuating her body for the attention, negative or positive, as opposed to just dressing for comfort and ease.....
Ok then a follow up question why do women get offended? Like I can walk around new york and find women wearing basically what can be called bikini tops, i mean if you are gonna wear something that is out of the norm why get offended when people stare?
It is my observation and may be totally incorrect.
Women usually don't mind if they are being looked at by decent, smart, handsome looking guys. Many even admire being stared by them. Your appearence matters a lot.
CM - I have no idea why people get offended by that, if you ask for that sort of attention why get upset when you get it...
But I also think that looking or a comment is harmless, but some guys really get offensive. And your standard of being too sexy or too tight might be different from mine and that is the problem with judging people by a moral standard.
Also, it seems as though it is like WitchDr pointed out in post #16, the on-lookers to the two people who get offended and usually women. Jealousy, perhaps?
WitchDr - Admiring looks from men, ugly or good-looking, are equally nice. I think there is a difference in the stares though. If you are dressing with a sexual edge, the stares are one way and a rude comment or two is expected. But if you are just good-looking and dressed appropriately, it is a whole other feeling... admiration is nice.... lust is not.
