Re: Who has the right to name the child
oh boy do i hate this or what!!!!!! esp if ur MIL has told u even before ur preg (so that u have it in mind or whtever) that all my children were names by some khala, phoppo etc and not by the couple!!! its ridiculous. i hate it so mch. i dun want my baby to have a name he/she got some grandfather/mothr. they can suggest but they shudnt make the final decision. somehow they make u feel guilty if u even dream of makin a decision alone. in my quest to b a perfect bahu so that the other bahu and i are not compared, i m under pressure to listen to them also. i m willin to listen i jst hope theydun freakin thrust it on us... considerin my hubs who wudnt have the guts to say NO to a name if they are particularly excited abt some silly name!