Who do you pick?

Two guys. Potential suitors. They are by and large same on the books, looks, money, education, mannerisms wise. Generally good decent guys.

However one’s mother is alive. The other’s has passed away.

Who do you pick to marry ladies?

Please note all answers in this thread will be mailed to your future MILs for their information.

Re: Who do you pick?

id pick the taller one

or the one with the taller momma

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ppfffttt…silly @Zafra…we all know it’s the evil nands you have to worry about…you didn’t mention how many sisters each of these guys have :vivo:

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^:rotfl:

What if they’re both equally tall and their mums are both equally tall as well?

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Please women. There is only one momma. The other one she be in heaven. Because all momma's go to heaven.

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only in Zafra’s lalaland is that possible!!

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I already have a MIL. Why would I want another one?

Now answer this: If you were single and a potential wife-to-be would marry you if her parents could live with you guys. At the same time, you had another potential rishta who had no issues living with your parents and doesn't care enough about her own to leave them behind. Who would you picK?

Wait, don't answer. I already know. Don't ya just love double standards?!

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I have earned my due to say the dead one is the winner!!!

Mine is very nice but now I would try the saas free life!! Change is GOOD!!!

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I agree with khatti

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@Zafra jis ke dekhne se dil main ghanti baje :faizy: and no, not talking about the MIL khatray ki ghanti :cb:

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My mother in law is actually a very good person...maybe in the past I might have thought about the dead one's scenario but not anymore.

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the one with the mother so i can chop her up for dinner. #stupidthreadstupid](http://www.paklinks.com/gs/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=stupidthreadstupid)

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Some of the responses are legendary.

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This thread is legendary...hardly a surprise about the responses :)

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Re: Who do you pick?

Interesting thread :stuck_out_tongue: I think ill choose the one with the mother who is alive.

2 reasons.

  1. I would love to see how my husband interacts with his mother… Is he loving? good? filial? They say you have to see how a man treats his mother to know how he wil behave with you in the future.

  2. I would like to do some khidmat for my MIL too. I know it sounds weird but i would just want to see how it is to serve a MIL. (assuming she is good!) #dontlaughmarriedgirls](http://www.paklinks.com/gs/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=dontlaughmarriedgirls)

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^I don't think that saying about how he treats his mother is so true in reality..

I think in desi culture a lot of people make a clear distinction between how they should treat their mothers and their wives..

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#DeadMIL](http://www.paklinks.com/gs/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=DeadMIL)

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dead one would come as a ghost and be all haunting and stuff.
it easier to kill enemy if you can see them. or as a great man once said, 'if it bleeds we can kill it'.
ghosts no bleed. so i pick living one.

Re: Who do you pick?

I'd pick the guy who is closer to Allah regardless of whether his mom is alive or deceased.