I already have a MIL. Why would I want another one?
Now answer this: If you were single and a potential wife-to-be would marry you if her parents could live with you guys. At the same time, you had another potential rishta who had no issues living with your parents and doesn't care enough about her own to leave them behind. Who would you picK?
Wait, don't answer. I already know. Don't ya just love double standards?!
Interesting thread I think ill choose the one with the mother who is alive.
2 reasons.
I would love to see how my husband interacts with his mother… Is he loving? good? filial? They say you have to see how a man treats his mother to know how he wil behave with you in the future.
dead one would come as a ghost and be all haunting and stuff.
it easier to kill enemy if you can see them. or as a great man once said, 'if it bleeds we can kill it'.
ghosts no bleed. so i pick living one.