Who closed "Suhagraat"

I am not a pervert at all and please don't use such language for me this is very offending. you can look around i have tried my best in all of the messages to keep everything within the circle. this may be a joke for you but it isn't for me rather its very serious.
I am getting married and someone did said me very seriously outside this forum and some one did say it in this forum as well that it becomes very embarassing for the guy if he slips the first night. and i am really concerned about it.
I thank you chamak and mirch for standing up for me and i would request jaan leva to please keep it down atleast in this link