Judgementalism is etched to a degree in our DNA. What do you think about the idea of presenting ourselves in a way where we don’t get their spidey senses all tingling. I teach people likeability. If you groom yourself, you don’t have odors and are all smiles, say please and thank you, show interest in people and give them compliments and be funny people will be all over you. Some of these nurses were sharing their personal life details with me.