Which would you prefer?

Lifestyle Relationships
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[HR][/HR]And “neither” is not an option :emmy:

Someone whose polite and nice to you in private but rude in front of others or sweet and affectionate in public but rude in private?

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both

one for public - one for private

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depends if I have to spend more time with that 'someone' in private or in public :D

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If there is only one to select then it is has to be the first person … reason being that they have nothing to hide … whereas the second is almost playing to an audience. Private life is often associated to the REAL you.

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Tough question..............

i have only one answer......... i would choose NONE :p

Seriously........ i want a person who would be nice with me in private and in public as well. He could be rude with me but only in private and not always.

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first person

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THe first if I had to choose between only those two...

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same with me....I would prefer the first option.

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As long as its a certain SO, I'd choose 1. Simultaneously, I would also request her to elaborate on why she chooses to be '2' to others.

No man likes a two faced woman or vice versa.

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neither but if i have to pick, I would pick 1 b/c atleast he ain't a wolf in sheep's clothing or a fakie in public

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If I had to choose.....then the first...because it reflects some sincerity toward me whereas the latter doesn't and is more of a dikhawa. Besides, I think putting him in his place a few times might even correct the problem in the first situation.....whereas the second one seems more difficult to solve.

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If those were my only 2 choices....I would pick #2.

I don't like to get other people involved in my personal drama. However, behind closed doors, I can give him such an intense taste of his own medicine...that he'll change his tunes real quickly if he wants to live in the same house with me and have even an ounce of happiness.

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2nd one, when he/she is rude me in private I will love to fix that :D

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^Same, @Paheli00

I'd never tolerate him being rude or disrespectful to me in public or in front of other people.

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First person...lol..funny I know people who fit in both categories.

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Batao na :khumar:

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Can’t..they’re people I personally know who were members of GS, they might still be lurking around :stuck_out_tongue:

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Seriously? :bummer:

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this is an adult though, adults aren't so equipped for changing themselves or realizing their flaws, what will you do or say to him that will make this personality of his change 180 deg so he would be more caring and understanding?

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Depends on amount of sweetness and rudeness.

I would take a whole lot of sweetness in private pleaj. ;)