which one would you prefer

Lifestyle Relationships
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for gals (as their bhabi) and guys (ofcourse as their wife)

option A: younger girl in age but is more educated than you.

option B: older girl in age but is less educated than you.

ps. this query could have many possibilities so suggest me in what ever way you are seeing the picture as.

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Re: which one would you prefer

^:smack: What does my preference have to do with who my brother will marry, its up to him.

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well in many arranged marriages it does happen. usually mothers, sisters, bhabis look for the guys rishta.

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Re: which one would you prefer

what difference does it make if its a or b?

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It's a wife search, not a 'NYCGori's new BFF' search. I would look for someone whose education and age is compatible to my brother, not me!

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that is why i am asking.
cuz may be you have different experiences than me.

dhoodh vs lassi
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educated it good.
proud to have dgree not kool.. no brain not kool.
Good family is good. proud of being rich no kool.
Too young not kool.

courage to say the truth very kool.
Lying is SOOOOOOOOO un kool.

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okie then you putting yourself in your brothers shoes.

so as guy which option will you choose? (marrying the same age and education is not an option, cuz then its better to look for your soul mate in your school class)

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Re: which one would you prefer

Well it doesn't really matter, as long as my brother would be happy with her.

But me being an evil nund... if i had to choose...

1. she better not be prettier then me
2. education above a masters
3. better be a moti
4. her cooking better suck
5. older: so shes always the buddi in the family

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Gia plz pick a girl for me :omg:

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Re: which one would you prefer

the typical desi guy reaction will be ; which one is prettier

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Re: which one would you prefer

donoon nahi mil sakteen ? :hmmm:

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Re: which one would you prefer

age and education don't matter as long as :

i) we can both engage in meaningful conversation with each other on mutually interesting topics.

ii) we can respect each others' point of view - which itself is not only an attribute of one's age and education, but also other factors including experience, preferences, personal circumstances, personality traits etc.

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How do you know that? lol

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hahhaa..nice nice

but why do u want her more educated than u?

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Re: which one would you prefer

Finds PM an ugly, moti, buddi, no cooking skills, with a masters wali larki right away:chai:!

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LC, you dont know the person before marriage (doesnt matter whether its an arrange or its a love marriage). all you can judge them by the given criteria...even in jobs employers specifically ask for certain criteria. as degree and work experiences the best way to judge anyones qualifications? so what you have suggested is an example of utopia.

so prior to marriage if you were put in the situation, which one the two option you would had chosen?

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*we should be on the same mentality level, otherwise she's just paindo *

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I wouldn't marry the person if I weren't able to make an informed choice. In a day and age where you can communicate with each using various means including the phone, the Internet as well as personally (if that's considered appropriate by the families), getting to know these basic details about a person isn't that difficult. It might take some time... even a couple of years... but in the end, it's worth it.

I actually applied this criteria in my own case, so it's not exactly "utopia".

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hm...so u have done your masters.
nice, what field?