Re: Which one would be easier for you - Being a dumpee or dumper?
Being the dumper actually helps you to understand about how you feel and as well as how the one you dumped might’ve (on a substantial scale) felt like, cause at some point you do tend to compare to how it must’ve felt like if they were you.
I do however believe it is more difficult and soul drenching for the dumpee to overcome the betrayal of trust and the loss of time invested than it is for the dumper to get rid of someone he/she thought to be incompatible/unworkable. But assuming it is some walk within the helms of gorky park for the dumper is nothing but an overstatement. The guilt distributes within the two equally.