Relationship breakups happen & there are thousands of people who go through them every day, but what makes it easier for you to move on - Being a dumpee or dumper?
Being a dumper may mean you would have some regrets and confusion on your decision of breaking up. While being a dumpee means you may develop bitter feelings towards that person which may make your process of moving on easier. No?
Re: Which one would be easier for you - Being a dumpee or dumper?
Relationship breakups happen & there are thousands of people who go through them every day, but what makes it easier for you to move on - Being a dumpee or dumper?
Being a dumper may mean you would have some regrets and confusion on your decision of breaking up. While being a dumpee means you may develop bitter feelings towards that person which may make your process of moving on easier. No?
What you think?
Being the dumper actually helps you to understand about how you feel and as well as how the one you dumped might've (on a substantial scale) felt like, cause at some point you do tend to compare to how it must've felt like if they were you.
I do however believe it is more difficult and soul drenching for the dumpee to overcome the betrayal of trust and the loss of time invested than it is for the dumper to get rid of someone he/she thought to be incompatible/unworkable. But assuming it is some walk within the helms of gorky park for the dumper is nothing but an overstatement. The guilt distributes within the two equally.