Re: Which one of these should you disclose?
No one’s business !
Coffee’s are overrated when it comes to desi affairs. (not that i have experience 
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I think having a chit chat coffee does not mean you are having an affair. It only means that you are having a cup of coffee! "rollin ma eye:
About the Hindu affair - It would really be none of my business, cause I am not gonna be the one PROVIDING her the “love” “security” “family” “pay her bills” - yadda yadda yadda - so it’s none of ma business. It would be the Hindu guy who wants to be a good companion and take responsibilities. So I say LET THEM LIVE 