To forgive? Or to forget? And why?
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Forgive as most of the time it works.
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I HAVE MY REVENGE and then I forgive.
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Forgiving someone is tough for me. I don't have a big heart to forgive everyone who do wrong with me ....
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Certain things can never be forgiven but they can definitely be forgotten with time
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Hmm…Its depend upon , how close relationship is, If close relationship, should give another chance, so I will first think to forgive, it’s not easy but the same time its hard to forget a close one even he/she made blander. If some stranger or bit known person, I will try to forget.
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I'm going to assume you mean serious situations here. Not something like your brother eating the last doughnut even though you had a family meeting about how you have claimed dibs on it.
Forgiving is easy. Forgetting is hard. I actually think that its much harder to forget for the person doing the wrong if they're feeling very guilty. Even still though it would definetly matter alot on the situation and relationship you have with the person.
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To forgive? Or to forget? And why?
forget! because, I can forgive someone but will never forget what he or she did to me!
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It is difficult to forgive because it needs courage and constant battle with inner feelings.
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Forgetting and Forgiving its self is not hard or easy, its the level of offense and offender that decides.
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none of them are difficult. Lots of other much more difficult things in life.
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to forget.
i'm no one to forgive.
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Allah gives and forgives, Man gets and forgets....
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Aight..ya know what. I usually forgive and forget. Xtron doesn't like holding grudges..
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I can hold grudges so I prefer to forget. I have an icebox for a heart, ya'll.
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I can choose to forgive, and sometimes I do indeed forgive a lot of transfressions... but I suppose forgeting things is much harder.
The older you get the more ones past memories haunt you, its like a bad videotape playing back on your mind...constantly there to remind you of your past. Some events are so imprinted at the back of ones mind that you can never forget them... perhaps only death shall be a relief from those hauntings although some say that even in death one can be pursued by the same troubles.
Lets just say that one should try to forgive as much as possible as the moore issues you can smoother over in these stages, the better as you get older if you made amny mistakes in the past they will catch up with you.
Be sure your sins will find you out.
Allah have mercy on us all.
It takes time but I eventually forgive- whether close ones or strangers doesnt matter..i forgive and move on..but forgetting things is not possible..you can not completely erase your memory..the memory would still b at the back of your mind and might hit you someday..