Which of the 3 days needs more attention?

Mehndi, Barat, Walima. I know all three of the days are important. But which one do I need to put more thought into?

Re: Which of the 3 days needs more attention?

I think Barat. As at Mehndi its the last event at your home and valima is the first event from your susral. The most imp is the event of Baraat when your life is actually changing. Girls feel so stresses on their wedding day.......

Re: Which of the 3 days needs more attention?

Barat, the big day :)

Re: Which of the 3 days needs more attention?

Mehndi is the most hectic for the performers :smiley:

Shadi is the most hectic and requires a lot of attention for the bride’s family and close friends. Consider this: http://www.paklinks.com/gs/wedding/524788-my-advice-for-brides-and-their-family-friends-planning-a-wedding.html

Valima is usually more relaxed, even for the groom’s side.

Re: Which of the 3 days needs more attention?

Shaadi - its your actual wedding day. The other two are auxilliary...... :)

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Baraat. You need to be relaxed physically. mentally and emotionally to be ready for that day (and that night)

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You are all so right. Dreading barat. Leaving my family. Hate even thinking about it!

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Definitely Baraat!... A day full of mixed emotions, Happiness, anxious, nervous & excited.

Re: Which of the 3 days needs more attention?

i guess barat........