Totay as in parrots 
abay parrots kahaan se aa ga’ay iss thread main
True Story. I was reading Dale Carnegie’s ‘How to win friends and influence people’ and after the fight with Muzna, I decided to apply all I learned from the book on her. Add it worked 
Lucid, I agree with you on that. Muzna did bring a personal touch to this website that helped many guppies to stay and many like myself come back after the absence of several years