Re: Which is the Most Blessed Marriage?
***“Whosoever turns away from my Sunnah is not of me.” (Bukhari)
“And give the relative his right and the needy and the traveler and do not waste wealth needlessly. (26) Verily, those who waste wealth are the brothers of the devils and the devil is in rebellion against his Lord.” Noble Quran 17:26-27]
I guess it’s preferable to keep it simple, not haraam, but probably makroo to have it lavishly…I wish I could’ve had my wedding more simple, yet I’m conflicted with my nafs to have things lavish and beautiful at the same time. It’s so hard these days… family pressures and all and then getting over ones nafs - the need to constantly think for ‘me me me’ should be quashed and we should all be thinking of only ‘Allah Allah Alllah’ …I hope we all achieve this, and realise wealth is not of our own, it’s from Allah and he will account for every penny we spend of it…
Ya Allah please give us all hidayat and help us start our first steps into marriage in the way you love and prefer. Ameen***