Which event is Cake served at?

Is the wedding cake generally served during the Nikah night or the Valima night?

It's the valima. That's where I've seen it cut most!

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really are you sure???? I thought I have seen it at the Nikah. Man I am confused.

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Most of the weddings i've been to that had a cake cutting ceremony had it at the nikkah. I've only been to one where it was at the valima. I don't think there is a right or wrong - it's entirely upto you!

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You can do either. Some couples do both. But if you want to do just one, I would suggest going with the valima since nothing specific really happens on the valima day.

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I cut the cake on engagement neither Nikah nor Valima! basically there is no right or wrong.

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in our family its valima!

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cake @ nikah. cupcakes/dessert bar @ valima.

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I've seen it at Valimas usually but it's totally upto you :)

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at my wedding it was both..... made sense too because both venues were offering a cake free of charge as part of the package deal of booking htem :-p

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cake is a nice dessert option to have other than the regular desi sweets..

at my baraat/nikkah - I had both cake and western dessert options and desi dessert options

At the walima - cake was the only dessert option

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we had it at both events.

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nice.... i am thinking cake on the walima day, and desi dessert on the nikah