Re: Which do you prefer (think of kids) - Housewife or Career Wife....
^ this thread is implying a lot of things
-working women neglect their kids
-makes housewives look worthless as they do nothing but household chores & look after kids
-why is the title biased '"think of the kids".........working or not, a mother always thinks of her kids
i dont think women should be giving justifications as why they are working or not or to prove that they are good moms....of course you are...who cares what others think!!
Re: Which do you prefer (think of kids) - Housewife or Career Wife....
I have a great career but ultimately, I want to be a stay at home mum. One of the reasons that I was initially attracted to Islam is because it is decreed that I can do so. For me personally, I think it is SO important. FOr me personally, what is the point in working if it means that my kids will go to a daycare to be parented by someone else... my mum stayed at home with my siblings and it made a huge difference (we think) in our lives. I know in my heart, that God desires me to stay at home. When I was still looking for a husband, it was one of the first things I'd bring up when I met a guy, it is that important to me that he be on board.
Re: Which do you prefer (think of kids) - Housewife or Career Wife....
man.. can a woman do ANYTHING in this world without ppl thinking negatively of her? if she has a job, she must be like this. if she doesnt she must be like this. if this then this, if that then it must be like that.. etc etc
god... the number of times a woman has to come up with answers in this world... she is gonna be an ace replier in time for judgement day.
aap buhat foresighted hain.