Which do you prefer, a wife that's more expressive

about her feelings, where she hugs/kisses and actions speak louder than words for her or one that’s more sharmilee where you do all the expressing? obviously one can’t make a generalization about desi men

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donooon ka qeema bana ker, I'll make a modest one ...who shy when I m too much expressive and who expresses when I m quiet :)

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you can't have both so perfectly together like that, humans aren't so perfect or say open to change

obviously a woman that's more sharmilee would have a tough time being the huggy kissy type but when you say "modest" combining the two, you're actually saying that a wife that is very expressive is not modest in her ways and you wouldn't respect her as much

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why does anyone have to do the touchy feely stuff??? either her or me??

i would like a sharmeeli one and where i also DON'T have to do all that cheesy stuff..

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I <3 hugs

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a wife should be modest, expressive, and sharmeeli enough according to situation. :@:

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^^can't have it so perfect sirji and what exactly do you mean by "modest".

Good Lord do you see how difficult you desi men are to figure out..just like desi women :p not one reply was the same, how in the world is a person supposed to know unless the man explicitly says which he prefers or which he doesn't respect

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I like the charging one - not the back seat taker :)

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hope you did not mean car back seat .....

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preference for one doesn't automatically mean disrespect for other........mixing preference and respect is quite naive.........

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wouldn’t that depend on the man as well and his personality.

if you prefer one that does nothing to express herself, just smiles and giggles in private and in public then if you married one that’s very expressive and lovey dovey, huggy kissy then what would you do? I am not naive :grumpy:

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these are very particular, specific personality traits you are talking about…and then giving options of two extremes…

what will i do if happen to have to deal with one of the two??

i will live with it…what else??

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why wouldn't you want someone to hug you and kiss you, you're her hubby at that point duh :p not that i'm one or the other type but asking generally

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It's hilarious how VELA people are

Who the phunk actually goes out looking for a girl with her sharmeeliness being such a huge huge factor in their hunt

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i wouldn't want the chipkoo excessively cheesy clingy one.............

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ofoh, bata to diya. ab iss main kiya complication hain.

read post # 6 :@:

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lol, I agree w/ Naagibh and Sharabee. If I were a guy, I would def. go for a take-charge type of a girl. A sharmeeli girl would become a massive headache and I would lose interest b/c I do NOT chase people :snooty: (at least not for an extensive time period). Plus, a girl who takes charge is bound to be a beast in the sheets, ahem.

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now huggy,kissy,expressive girl is being equated to a take charge girl?? :nahi:

yo girls are all mixed up about all teh stuff…

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:cb: GS p kese kese topic parhnay ko mil rahay hain aaj kal :omg:

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yeah, sharmeeli are headache.