Intellectually, I agree with this comment. But, I guess it also comes down to the guy. If he’s the only one in this remote far-flung city to keep me company since I have no job or friends, his company should be pretty stellar by itself to keep me interested and entertained.
I’m remembering what a friend once said to me when I told her I wanted to marry a man I could be friends with. She said marry a guy who fits the “criteria” but not to hold out for friendship with your husband. She said you get friendship and conversation from friends not your husband.