Re: Where to raise your kids
Living environment is like a training ground for a child. He adopts the things either he likes it or not. If his fellows are having some thing and he is not, than it will only make him frustrated but not a hard worker.
Some days back I read a report and according to that mothers with high school education have more children with Phd as compare to the mothers with Masters or Phd. One thing that it reflects is that people with less luxury in life teaches them hard work and specially respect for other hard workers.
I totally agree with you to raise your children as middle class citizens and let them work hard for their future. Mostly us Asians here in America came from a middle class and it makes us easier for us to bear all the hardship here.
This is very right time for you to decide and make a true men out of them. InshaAllah you will make right choice.
Good luck 