Re: Where there was a fire, ashes remain
You can fall in love again. It’s not the same kind of love as your REAL LOVE (which may not be your first) but it’s a true love that can only happen once, if your true love has hurt you, if you had to part ways for any reason, the pain will always be with you. However, this pain won’t stop you from loving someone else…
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Re: Where there was a fire, ashes remain
First love is hard to forget especially if does not work out for you. You always think of the time that you spent together and hope somethings could have turned out differently. Maybe you missed some things, missed some hints or were unable to say things that were inside of you.
Whenever your hearts breaks, first it bleeds you cry, than the scar is left where you don't feel the pain everyday, but always get hurt when it is touched. Some people say time heals all the pain, but it is not true, as it only makes us get use to it. However, you live another day, for another morning, sunrise and the great things ahead of you.
You can't change your past but, can make your future bright. So best thing is to lightening up the fire of hope inside of you again so that you can live again.
Don't do it because people are telling you to move on, or your friends, family, just do it this time for yourself. This one and only thing and see how things become beautiful again.
Re: Where there was a fire, ashes remain
WOW... This is so true :)..... You do end up being a stronger person by letting someone you love go....
yes i think it is possible to fall in love twice.
it takes time, patience and strength to fall out of love when you first get hurt. Because it's not just love in the mix - its the feeling of hurt, betrayal, sadness and pain as well.
And once all these feelings for that first person finally does get resolved and goes away, your heart is open to fall in love with someone else all over again.
trust me. menu pattha =)
Re: Where there was a fire, ashes remain
^after all, tomorrow is another day!