Many marital relationships drift apart; they lose their very purpose of getherness. Marriage in most societies is not what people do but what happens to them.here was nothing left of the marriage, anyway”, do not fail to refer to the second relationship as an A*** one with all its negative connotations.And the worst thing is that many people do use an outside relationship only to add sparkle to their own limp egos and stagnant lives
let me tell you that not every Other Wo/Man has designed to be where they are and no doubt about that “The most wonderful girl in the world” was a married woman.Love sometimes create such kinda problems that you can even imagined and the result is always worst kinda…Somewhere along there may have been guilt that she had left herself open to such attention – why did she not wear a placard saying, “I am married?” Why was she so concealed that even her wounds did not bleed? Did she have special skills that with just a twitch of her mouth, a quiver in the voice, she made herself vulnerable? Why did she feel persecuted only because someone found her worthy of his attention?Or was she afraid of the patented possession anyway that she thought by exposing her fear of the dark she might see the light and get blinded by it?id she not feel honoured that instead of a cheap pass there was someone who wanted to make her life “happier” Why did she not allow herself the luxury of believing that she deserved the extras, whether or not she took them?Was marriage such a watertight compartment that even Nature’s bestowed rain showers and dewdrops were a travesty against it? In short i know of a women
if two people can share such a comfortable relationship, why would they need to look outside. Because nothing is static. Emotions are fluid. And there are different kinds of love. How many married couples reinvent? I think men who force themselves upon their wives are debauched. I think wives who let other women titillate their husbands (“Hah, he is going to return to me!”) and then beat them for it are sick. The woman I am speaking about told her husband after 14 years of being the ideal wife that even a convicted murderer is let off after 12 or 13 years. “So, now it is time you let me off.” It wasn’t just to jump into another man’s bed. She had fallen in love. here must be moments of anguish, some uncomfortable or embarrassing situations. I am not sure if this is the best solution; to get out of the rut mere adventure trips are not enough.Yet this is also one face of an emerging society where people can make choices, lead unconventional lives and not hide behind pillars to hold up a ceiling that’s cracking. A new unpaved path is not what everyone needs but it helps to know that if you care or dare to walk on it, there will be other travellers, not merely spectators ready to hurl stones.I am not here to applaud this woman, for she is not looking for it. Neither will I applaud the man for being so understanding because he too is not looking for it. No storms, no marriage on the rocks. Just two people learning a new way in which to swim.
Is there any1 who had faced such kinda of experience ,this a kinda personal but still more girls didnt hav enough courage to share 
as they wana exist any more and spend few more years with this GS cafe.Mostly i didnt find serious kinda experience sharing threads except impulse and some other members who shared,Remain the whole Cafe is dum as having dummers kinda friends 
i was having sooo much FUN!
i am could be forever going on talked like that.
ommmmmmmmmmmmmmmg arshad!!! 
