so ive just completed my 4th year of university, i have come across many men in my time there and still have a couple of years left to go and my parents are looking for a suitable rishta for me and have given me permission to find someone myself too.
However, i havnt really met anyone at uni, i have alot of male friends, but i wouldnt marry any of them, because i know what kind of things they get upto! and the guys who i do think oh they are ok…all have girlfriends…their girlfriends tend to be beautiful middle eastern girls.
My parents have been looking for my rishta for the past year and have only come across 1 who came to see me!
Neither my parents or I have very high demands, im training to be a doctor so someone of equal educations, from a good family and good balance of east and west…so not clubbing/drinking/string of girlfriends but not taliban either, just moderate.
But for some reason im not having any luck and neither are my parents, my parents are becoming increasingly worried and so am i!
Are we doing something wrong? im trying to work on my self…working out and going to the gym eating well because i feel beauty gives you some choice in life, im not very fair…is that it??
Where can i meet more people…also the boys who come across as decent to me always turn out to be hindu or sikh..sigh…what a flop!!
im just wondering what i can do or what my parents can do?
i know its all a matter of destiny but you cant just sit around all day and do nothing either!
Im really ready for marriage and to settle down i feel like its the right time in my life, im doing dua and inshallah something will come along soon.
But i am getting a bit worried!