Re: Where did I go wrong ?
Your son is being bought up the way i am/was being bought up.
Now i am at university ( away from home) i can say that i have never drunk, did drugs, had sex or set foot in a night club.
I had a relationship with someone but i also told my parents about that and i stayed within my limits.
I tell my parents everything and because they have always been very moderate with me i have never seen anything is taboo or been rebelious.
The muslim people at uni who go drinking, have loads of sex etc etc are actually those who came from the more 'stricter' families.
SO i think you are doing a great job.
No matter what people will always judge you, and you can never keep everyone happy...and that is not your job anyway its about your children.