When you're mad at someone...

…do you want him/her to know?

Re: When you're mad at someone...

No because letting them know is empowering them over yourself.

Re: When you're mad at someone...

Depends on the situation. Indeed, if they derive pleasure from the fact that they had the ability to anger me, then no, I would not want them to know for the reasons that hareem mentioned. But if I feel that their knowing that I'm mad at them can bring positive changes, then I would share. A good friend or family member would not want me to be mad, so if something they did upsets/angers me, I would want them to know so they know not to repeat their behaviour in the future.

Re: When you're mad at someone...

NO...i am hardly ever get mad at anyone to such a degree that letting him know or NOT know will matter too much to me! i wouldn't care less if he/she knows about it or NOT! it's NOT one bit important for me! :)

Re: When you’re mad at someone…

Depends on who it is…if it is my hubby…I make sure he knows am mad…and also HOW MAD I am :snooty:

Re: When you're mad at someone...

Nope. But then seldom are cases where the woman doesn't bug the living bejesus out of the man to tell her whats up.

When you're mad at someone...

Nopes but sometimes my body language will betray and send signals!!

Re: When you're mad at someone...

Not when I am mad...I need time to think about things.

But it doesn't matter if I want them to know or not because people say my eyes give it away that I am angry.

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lol...waah!

what do your eyes tell in your avataar? :)

Re: When you're mad at someone...

Or them sacred facial expressions.

When you're mad at someone...

Depends on who it is. If its a friend then I need time to think or I stay away. If its hubby he can always tell not that it's hard not too :/

Re: When you're mad at someone...

depends. If I want to and make things clear, then certainly I do, if I observe even bringing this into his/her knowledge is of no use.. I dont!!
Most of the time, people can know by my expressions.. Kiya karun mujhse munafiqat nahin hoti.. dil main bura lagay to chehray p aa jata hay..!!

Re: When you're mad at someone...

indeed. It needs sometime to let your ghussa to know to the one to whom you are mad at.

Re: When you're mad at someone...

I tell them to get lost. Don't speak to me till I have cool downed. Then I decide on how to make them suffer.

Re: When you're mad at someone...

PMS, eh?

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yes, why else am i wasting my time being angry? unless the source of my anger is someone of great irrational power - like that @#&(*@#@ woman at the dmv.

Or them sacred facial expressions.
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Jee nahi.. Main theray shaklein nahi banati :snooty;

Re: When you're mad at someone...

no I dont want them to know.. they try to make me laugh and succeed in like secs.. aur phir kahan ka ghussa

Re: When you're mad at someone...

Trying too hard now. You got pwned. Be gracious in defeat.

Re: When you're mad at someone...

It depends on who it is. If its someone I don't expect an apology from than I wouldn't bring it up. With close friends and family yes I would tell them. Even if I don't I think it's really obvious I am upset.