Re: When you were a bacha
Shak that is probably not the case will all the parents these days. I think people whose parents were strict in a less understanding way, like “keh diya to keh diya” those present day parents might be less strict with their kids but then again they probably know a different definition of the word strict.
I know I won’t snap at my child but boy oh boy she is an infant & I have already set up all the age limits from getting ear piercing done to wearing lip gloss to going out with whom & when & staying over where & when & when to get her a cell phone. Although in our teen years me & hubby had computers & in my case even tv in our rooms, he already says that there will be only one computer with internet access & that too where the screen is visible from any angle in the house. Its not like she won’t be allowed any of the things every other kid does but close monitoring & limited access. Wouldn’t want her to feel deprived off anything but then at the same time wouldn’t want her to be all loose either.
I think we are definitely more strict than our parents.