Re: When you Love someone
^I don’t think it’s really true for me at least. I think about my husband constantly and he is my first priority in all decisions—but I’m pretty conservative in discussing our relationship at all with others. I sort of feel like not talking about him and our relationship to others is a form of respecting his privacy, and protects us from the impure motivations that sometimes even seemingly good friends can have (have you ever told a friend about a disagreement you had with your spouse, or even said something nice about your spouse, and the friend responds with some negative comment or meethi churri?—these encounters can ultimately have a negative impact on your spousal relationship.)