is not trust worthy, what feeling is felt right after this knowledge?
are people generally normal when they react to this, initially?
how should it be reacted to?
share if you like.
best,
Dushwari
Re: when you know that someone
it hurts to know that sum1 u trusted actually betrayed u!!
and i dont know how u shud react to it
cuz i cant forgive that person no matter wat!!
i stop thinking rationally i just get all too emotional
and i always think of that person the same way no matter how hard they try
and i dont know y im not that sweet melting material that u can melt with tears and emotions
i just remain unmoved no matter wat they do or how much they cry
i cant forgive
i know its bad and i feel bad bout it too but still i cant 
Re: when you know that someone
its very disappointing of course. u feel cheated, disbelief.
u go thru a period of every ugly feelings, words such as backstabbed, lied to, used, abused, fooled etc go thru ur mind all day.
no kind words can convince u after that.
but as in everything else, time heals all wounds
the fear of being cheated is always there. some days u feel the need to build defenses around urself for protection. some days u just wish it was all a bad dream.
the feeling of insecurity seeps in, soaking u.
when it starts to get really ugly... time to wake urself up and tell urself STOP IT!! :D
its very important to shift focus, otherwise ur just going to let urself go down into nothingness.
things happen for a reason. look for those reasons.
its easy to say i forgive. now forgetting is another story :)
if u keep fretting over it, ur giving that person the right to snatch ur peace and happiness. someone who have abused ur trust surely does not deserve that, right? fight the negative feelings 24/7 if u have to. dun cave in.