When you are helpless (esp. in this country)

[Mirch]

@ume-zafeerah

It is definately a tough situation for your aunt but I think sometimes job requirements are tough.And sometimes women are not selfless also if I am in that situation I won’t let my hubby to come to give me just breakfast as I know he is getting late for work and he has to drop off kid too.And if he is in hospital he will never tell me to be selfless and give him hot breakfast,he will definately tell me to do whats best because we have kids and have responsibilities.If you are talking about time commitment then its really hard ofcourse your aunt can understand, I think its just between husband and wife what they are comfortable with .May be you don’t know how her husband is supporting her in other things by taking care of children,cleaning and everything.I don’t know but when you are mature couple you understand each other needs and you don’t expect high things because you already know the situation.And as far as cooking part is concerned did her husband asked her to cook before surgery? Realy it depends if her husband asks her to cook and then he is not going its selfish.I don’t know but your aunt is really angelic who didn’t ask her husband to bring her extra food at night so she can eat it in lunch.And I don’t know about your uncle if he is not providing her food,it really depends on person to person.You cannot generalize that really because I know for sure if my husband would be there he took care of my food and everything first if he is not coming to hospital in the morning.

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