D_rkNgt
December 19, 2008, 6:56pm
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Re: When you are helpless (esp. in this country)
Situation: A relative of mine just had a surgical procedure done. She is not able to move her leg at all and is in therapy. So after surgery, she has to spend 3 more weeks at the clinic.
Sacrifice: Being a woman, she prepared and froze the food for one month for her family. By doing this, she ensured easement for her family (her husband and one son). * The hubby says he cannot visit in the morning hours before work, since he has to drive far for work (40 minutes).*
Flip the situation: I think if the situation was the other way around and the wife had to go to work - she would make sure that she woke up really early, prepared and packed homemade breakfast and lunch. Pray. Then leave early so she can drop it off. Make sure she sits with him for at least 10 minutes - mostly FEEDING him with her hands. Then clean up and leave for work.
Isn’t it difficult for women, esp. in this country - I mean she hates the breakfast and lunch there.. so I made some nice hot roti/omlete/chai - and dropped it off for breakfast.
I felt like crying because she was giving me so much duaas - words of blessing for doing that.
I just feel that if us women do so much for their hubbies - then why is it that they don’t give us equal attention?
(mods I am not sure where this topic belongs to)
hey jst tell us the exact situation … we wont need assumptions …
btw men ver like more loving to their spouse as compared to women species …u cant challenge ths anywhere in the world …