I feel for you girls… and that too because- I am in the same boat
Would you both tell me how many weeks far along are you?
I am like 21 or 22… I just don’t like to remember my weeks now… time stops when I do that, LOL!!
Everyone’s pregnancy is different to other… even sometimes, your two pregnancies are different from each other. Bus, you too, chaltay phirtay Lahol Wala Quwwat and Astaghfar parhti raha karo…we may not see the Clear effect but it does… it will help you go through this phase
Talking about being normal, I have heard from two different mothers, the day when they delivered their baby. They said, they were missing their baby in the womb, they were missing the closeness. One of them even said, see my baby is their in the cot… but I feel like so empty… carrying her in me was the most beautiful feeling Although she recovered early and after two days, was quite mingled with her Dunya wali baby, lol…but thats what I am telling you, we are crying at the moment over physical changes, I assure you, all of us, at some early stage, for a certain period, ARE gonna miss that little angel inside us
p.s., & don’t assume that this one mother had the healthier and smooth pregnancy, she is my best friend and she got pregnant while her husband was away for entire 7 months, she had to cope up with every kind of changes, not only that, she went through worst nausea and some complication in the later stage, she even got admitted to hospital in month seven due to some serious problems!!! I must say, she went through a real tough and rough phase!!!
Queen I agree there must be something about this whole experience that women do it over and over again.. I had a frnd who hated being pregnant and said shed not have another baby for a few years but ended up having her second baby the following year :S
I thnk u just forget all.the pregnancy issues once its over.. but for now it’s pretty hard on me and no matter what I tell myself to make myself happy I just cant feel good abt it
im in my 30th week Alhumdulillah bt th wait seems to be never ending.. u noe I have a couple of friends who were due this mth and next mth and im so envious of them that they are alrdy or almost done with being pregnant:( its just my hormones I guess..I read Quran and pray whenever im down .. Allah kare we have healthy babies
Queen your friend’s situation sounds like mine. I have been away from my husband the entire pregnancy and going through every complication possible. Making dua for some relief, but alhumdullilah my husband’s coming soon. He just needs to find a ticket .
oh from the thread title I thought you were talking about potty training. pregnancy is a breeze. potty training is not. you have no idea what’s coming for you. this like the trailer before the movie. and movie is really long. think ben hur meets lord of the rings.
^ lol I will take that over constant vomiting with blood, esophagitis, heartburn, no appetite, water makes it all worse on top of a high risk pregnancy. Just want my baby safely in my arms and healthy, each day is scary.
Now someone sedate me for the next four months.
For some kids potty training is very easy, just like pregnancy is a breeze for some. Unfortunately for me, neither was easy. My eldest is 12 and every phase is hard, this one too.
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