when will this be over :'(

tinkybee · October 30, 2013, 3:17am

Re: when will this be over

I hear you. I had a horrible pregnancy, I was on narcotics for most of my pregnancy, I was on pre term labor due to gallstones, was deemed to go early in labor and I slept for no more 3-4 hours for 20 weeks of my pregnancy.. It was a hell. So was labor and birth and then baby was here. I slept more with a newborn than during pregnancy, I ate well with a newborn than during pregnancy and generally my health improved after a surgery when my new born was 3 weeks old.. C section and fall bladder removal in a month and I still preferred that over my pregnancy. Point being, pregnancy isn’t easy or normal for everyone so don’t worry. Inshallah it will get better. You will get back to as “normal” as possible. Your life will be hectic but it won’t be a constant pain .. Your baby will bring you joy and comfort and loads of work. Trust me, you will like being a mom much more than being pregnant.. I did and I believe it.

THANK YOU sooo much.. I feel a hundred times better.. all this time I thought im the only one facing all these pregnancy issues..but feels good to know that some mommies here went through similar phases too..im actually looking forward to taking care of the baby I dun mind the wprk.. its the laziness and fatigue and alot of physical restrictions tht r making my life miserable. .. I agree wid u for not being able to sleep.. I cnt tell u how sleep deprived, depressed and cranky I am I can take care of ten kid but these nine mmonths have been the worst months of my life since day one !!