I dont know how to explain this but let me try I hope u all will understand this. When ever a person sees other he developes image of that person in his mind / heart according to other person’s clothing, facial expressions, talking style etc etc so did I but what happened to me…
I am a very positive thinking / optimist person. Few months ago I had a feeling of a TV anchor that she is very good and islamic and had always in hijab so I had a very descent feelings for her in my heart but then I saw her pictures on internet that totally wiped out my assumptions about her. Then a new model of TV commercial had very innocent beauty on her face so I developed likewise feelings about her but few days ago a friend of mine forwarded me pictures of that new model and said see how beautiful she is. I was astonished to see her clothing in modeling. What ever I developed image in my mind was broken. Then an other famous TV anchor gave me same experience. I just want to ask why people have double tripple personalities in their lives. On one TV channel showing oneself very religious then on other a very bold model and in personal life ALLAH muaf kray.
and y I always develop positive feelings about other people y I dont imagin that they might be of that type…
I think I have delivered my feelings properly. I m disturbed very much now not because of the personalities appeared differently but y I imagined them that way
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Well in showbiz life its normal to have dual personality, even in Pakistan showbiz drinking, dancing, late night lavish parties of showbiz class with elite class is normal, every body is running behind the money & fame so they will act according to the situation, its even normal for every class or type of persons...
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but y they charge so much innocency on their faces when they come on TV. I have decided not to think in a positive way about any male or female models.
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Seriously? A lot of these women you fancy seem to be news anchors, they have to have a modest/presentable image otherwise no one would take the news seriously.
You don't KNOW these women, you have no idea what they're like in real life. Having first impressions of someone on tv is completely different from having an impression of someone you meet in real life.
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Seriously? A lot of these women you fancy seem to be news anchors, they have to have a modest/presentable image otherwise no one would take the news seriously.
You don't KNOW these women, you have no idea what they're like in real life. Having first impressions of someone on tv is completely different from having an impression of someone you meet in real life.
U r right but does it mean that I should not develop any type of images when watching any person. I think its natural, as I said above, to develop opinion about the person even when u see him / her first time.
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I dont know how to explain this but let me try I hope u all will understand this. When ever a person sees other he developes image of that person in his mind / heart according to other person's clothing, facial expressions, talking style etc etc so did I but what happened to me...
I am a very positive thinking / optimist person. Few months ago I had a feeling of a TV anchor that she is very good and islamic and had always in hijab so I had a very descent feelings for her in my heart but then I saw her pictures on internet that totally wiped out my assumptions about her. Then a new model of TV commercial had very innocent beauty on her face so I developed likewise feelings about her but few days ago a friend of mine forwarded me pictures of that new model and said see how beautiful she is. I was astonished to see her clothing in modeling. What ever I developed image in my mind was broken. Then an other famous TV anchor gave me same experience. I just want to ask why people have double tripple personalities in their lives. On one TV channel showing oneself very religious then on other a very bold model and in personal life ALLAH muaf kray.
and y I always develop positive feelings about other people y I dont imagin that they might be of that type...
I think I have delivered my feelings properly. I m disturbed very much now not because of the personalities appeared differently but y I imagined them that way
I have only one thing to say, never judge a person by their superficial appearance.
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but y they charge so much innocency on their faces when they come on TV. I have decided not to think in a positive way about any male or female models.
Apki umar kya hai?
Its TV...its show business...there are scripts, makeup, lines, directors, etc. None of what you see is real.
No one can charge "innocency" in their face. Its something you want to see because they're all very pretty. But then you see them in a different huliya and the "innocency" is gone.
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Apki umar kya hai?
Its TV...its show business...there are scripts, makeup, lines, directors, etc. None of what you see is real.
No one can charge "innocency" in their face. Its something you want to see because they're all very pretty. But then you see them in a different huliya and the "innocency" is gone.
No no no reha sis. I did not mean innocency in the way u understood. Innocency which I described meant that they were fully covered with clothes and have had a very sober and matured persons attitude on TV. in no way they were looking like drinking, dancing females / males but when I saw their pictures having involved in all such activities I was disappointed very much. wo kehtay hn na sheklu noor te kertuta to benoor
