Such things are very common in desis:) a Pathan friend of mine was dating a punjabi girl & after a year khatoon ko khayal aya that her parents will never accept a Pathan guy, daaanggg Bibi pehlay sochna tha na. Any how you guys met on a matrimonial website, that means both of you are looking for a life partner so the girl should have informed you & stopped chating with a punjabi guy if she was looking for a Kashmir. Pray for yourself, ask Allah for help. I m sure jub right time & right person hoga to Allah khood hi aasanian paida ker dai ga. All the best:)