When is the right time to ask the very important question of…"Would you marry me??"Any advice for the new comers in this field???
When you have everything... a well established life. When you think you can assure the new bride a strong future.
Its not always about money, but if you truely love someone you would want her to live like a princess not someone with dupata on kammar and a Jharoo.
-Salman
I meant what one should look for before asking the question...Like if you like some one & you have some mental understanding...Then is it the right time to ring the bell ???
Whatever u ask or say - never show ur signature and tell u started shaving at 14!!!!
^ they already know it...hahahaha:):p
ur only nineteen adn u want to propose?
damnit where r guys like u????
if you can solve the more difficult question of 'When/Why should I tell people exactly when I started shaving?', why cant you solve this one?
^ Well on the serious note...suppose this question is not for me....for someone older than me....??
When it's right you know. If you have to stop and question yourself, then it's not time yet.
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*Originally posted by Sara516: *
ur only nineteen adn u want to propose?
damnit where r guys like u????
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Looks like time to change da signature....:p
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*Originally posted by hayaa: *
When it's right you know. If you have to stop and question yourself, then it's not time yet.
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Even if you like him/her...??
It's very romantic and sweet when you're in the moment, in the mood for proposing. But pretty soon reality will hit. Life's not all a bowl of cherries. You know it's right when you can handle the reality of being a husband/wife and all that entails. Supporting each other, a household, kids, getting along with in-laws, being truly fulfilled with eachother and the list goes on. There are so many factors to determine whether you are ready to marry. There is a lot of responsibility and if you're not mature enough to handle that then a young marriage can be as short-lived as Britney Spears'.
My suggestion is have a long engagement and if it's mean to be it'll happen at the right time. (you'll know when that is when it comes around.)
Is that a general, theoretical question or are you referring to a specific situation?
^ You are right...general,theoratical situation...you understood it correctly..
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*Originally posted by SalmanNY: *
When you have everything... a well established life. When you think you can assure the new bride a strong future.
Its not always about money, but if you truely love someone you would want her to live like a princess not someone with dupata on kammar and a Jharoo.
-Salman
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Why is it so important for desis to be financially stable before bringing a bride home? Isn't marriage supposed to be a partnership, through thick and thin? Then why should the man struggle all by himself, go through the hard years alone and when everything is fine and dandy, then bring home a bride? Shouldn't one get married and have a partner to confide in, to share through the bad times? That's such bull crap. Should girls just go from being a princess in their daddy's home to a princess in the husband's home? Should a girl never have to struggle along with her husband. I find this kind of suggestion utterly nonsensical.
goliko: you are 19.Too young I would say. Wait until you have completed your degree atleast.
Think if ur ready for it and ur stablished and everything then.
ask when u have confirmed the answer will be yes.
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ask when u have confirmed the answer will be yes.
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Good Idea...& When that would be???Any Signs for that???Any examples??
hotay hain tareeqay, par waqt aanay pay pata chaltay hain.
jab aashnaaee us more par pauhunch jaaiy toa khud hee pata chal jaata hay. dont try playing out fast forwards in life.