Re: when something is "bhaari" on you/your family
my nephew name "Osama" was too bhari for him :) not for superstitious reasons, just to avoid unwanted attention at immigration controls his parents changed to Ahmad!
there are bad times and there are good times, I dont think its the things that impact us on life.
many people would say , this house is not good for them... etc. may be they have stretched too much financially to buy it and later few years will automatically be hard for them, now they may be feeling its bhari for them. but there is valid reason for that.